Husbandry 101: Committed Men

Neil Rosenthal

by Neil Rosenthal

 

Dear Neil: I saved a column you wrote over a decade ago called “Husbandry 101: For Committed Men.” My copy has yellowed and frayed over the years, so could you rerun that column again? I believe many would like to see it again.

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Should I Allow My Boyfriend To Experience Another Woman?

by

Neil Rosenthal

Dear Neil: My boyfriend and I have been together over three years. During a break in our relationship, I had a one-night stand. I told him about it, and now he is very jealous because he didn’t get the opportunity that I did.

We are now [...]

An Alternative To The Cold, Silent Treatment

by Neil Rosenthal

Dear Neil: After my husband and I have a disagreement, especially if voices have been raised, I get the silent treatment. It can last as long as two weeks. I used to cry and attempt to cajole him into communicating during those spells, but that only seemed to strengthen his resolve. So [...]

Part 2: A Narcissistic Parent Often Undercuts The Desire To Be Close

by: Neil Rosenthal 

 

Among all the frustrations of

growing up with a narcissistic parent, one paradox

is that although a narcissist strives

to feel important, loved, powerful,

in control, superior and omnipotent-

–hand-in-hand with those feelings

lie the polar opposite feelings—of

feeling unsafe, worthless, inferior,

fearful, anxious and unloved. In part,

as a cover [...]