1-1/2 pounds ground turkey (or chicken)
3/4 cup dry breadcrumbs
1 teaspoon salt
1/4 teaspoon black pepper
1 large egg, lightly beaten
1/2 cup dried cranberries, finely chopped
1 tablespoon fresh sage, finely chopped
1 cup grated Jarlsberg cheese, divided
Preheat the oven to 350°F.
Combine the ground turkey (or chicken), breadcrumbs, salt, pepper and egg in a large mixing bowl. Lay a sheet of wax paper about 18-inches long on the counter and transfer the meat mixture to it. Gently pat the meat into a 12×15-inch rectangle of even thickness.
Scatter the chopped dried cranberries and sage over the meat to within 1 inch of the edges. Top with 3/4 cup of the grated Jarlsberg. Lift the wax paper on one of the short ends and carefully begin rolling the meat mixture into a log, gently patting the meat together and peeling back the wax paper as you roll. Gently press on the ends and seal the seam lengthwise. Transfer to a shallow baking pan sprayed with nonstick spray.
Bake for 35 to 45 minutes, or until the meat is no longer pink and thoroughly cooked. Remove from the oven and top with the remaining grated cheese. Slice and transfer to a serving platter. Serve with Apple, Sage and Riesling Compote.
Are you a dream maker or a dream breaker? The category to which you belong will strongly influence the direction your life takes, your level of satisfaction, and the type of impact you have on other people. Most of us aren’t even aware of the distinctions between dream makers and dream breakers.
Dream makers believe anything is possible. To them, the future is full of hope, promise, and potential. They know problems have solutions and obstacles can be overcome. Not only do dream makers believe in themselves, they believe in others as well.
Dream makers are optimistic. They are grateful for all of the blessings in their lives. Every day is a good day. Each morning is a new beginning with unlimited possibilities. Dream makers learn from their past, they don’t allow it to pollute their future.
Dream makers are not discouraged by naysayers. They don’t pay attention to negative criticism. Dream makers understand that everyone will have an opinion about their goals. They look to other successful people for inspiration and encouragement.
Dream makers understand that if they don’t know how to do something, they can learn or consult with a person who has the expertise they need. Dream makers value their library as a resource that has answers for most of the questions they may have.
The optimism of dream makers is contagious. Dream makers encourage others to reach their goals. They help others to find solutions. Dream makers never put others down or ridicule their aspirations.
Dream breakers are the opposite of dream makers. They always find reasons to justify why something is impossible. Dream breakers find insurmountable problems in every situation. They don’t believe in themselves.
Dream breakers are pessimistic. Everything they try fails. They are discouraged by all the problems in their lives. Each day is another struggle filled with obstacles. Dream breakers wish they could go back and change their past. They lament all of their past mistakes.
Dream breakers are swayed by negative opinions. They listen to those who say they will fail. Other successful people are no inspiration because they always had some advantage such as money, education, or who they knew.
Dream breakers know all of the limitations that prevent them from succeeding. They don’t have enough education or they have the wrong education. They are either too young or too old. They don’t have enough experience. There is no opportunity because they live in the wrong area. Dream breakers understand that there are many valid reasons for their failure.
Dream breakers are jealous of those who do succeed. They always try to discourage others. Dream breakers are quick to point out the many reasons why someone else will fail. They understand that people with dreams are being unrealistic. Dream breakers are purveyors of doom and gloom. They are not a lot of fun to be around.
Why choose to be a dream maker? Dream makers are happier than dream breakers. Their lives are more satisfying. Dream makers have attractive personalities and are pleasant to be around. They reach more goals than dream breakers. Dream makers believe anything is possible. Dream breakers feel nothing ever goes their way.
Anyone who is a dream breaker can change into a dream maker. The only difference between the two types of people is their attitude. You have the power to choose your thoughts. Whether you are a dream maker or dream breaker is up to you. Since there are no negative side effects to being a dream maker, why not live like one.
Let’s say you love someone, are bonded together and you desire nothing more than being able to live happily ever after with each other. But daily life stressors and pressures. past baggage, hurt feelings, poor communication, anger, mean-spirited words or behaviors, disagreements and withdrawal all conspire to hinder or to completely stop the two of you from feeling happy and loving toward each other. What can you do to get things warm, close and intimate again?
A lot, as it turns out. You could:
• Become much better at empathy. Empathy is the ability to enter into another person’s world of feelings. That means that issues and problems get a respectful hearing, that feelings and emotions are honored and valued, and that no one attempts to bully or intimidate in order to get their way. It also means that you learn to tune into your partners emotional state, and stay tuned in.
• Do everything you can to connect on a deep emotional level, and stay connected on that level.
• Let your partner know that you believe in him/her, and why. Make sure you clearly communicate what you like about the other person (especially as it relates to his/her personality traits), what s/he does right (you’re likely very good at letting your partner know what s/he does wrong) and what you respect about him/her. Express confidence in him/her whenever you authentically can.
• Address your expectations about chores, finances, sex, major decisions, children and child rearing, neatness vs. sloppiness, cleanliness and lifestyle preferences. Who’s going to do what? How are family matters expected to be handled?
• Talk about your goals in life and what you want to experience or accomplish, both as a separate individual and as a couple.
• Be more affectionate more often. I’m not referring to sexual affection, which may or may not always be received well. I’m referring to nonsexual touch, which almost always warms things up.
Neil Rosenthal is a licensed marriage and family therapist in the Denver and Boulder, CO, specializing in how people strengthen their intimate relationships. He can be reached at 303.758.8777, or e-mail him from his website www.heartrelationships.com.
Alexis Ann, editor & publisher, the Resident, congratulates Chef Bobby Flay on the opening of his restaurant, Bar Americain, at Mohegan Sun. This makes 10 restaurants in total and is his second Bar Americain, the first of which opened in New York in 2005.
by Alexis Ann
The Greater Mystic Chamber of Commerce invited Santa to come to town as part of the Magical Mystic Holiday Tour. Santa arrived by tugboat, a sixty-footer named John Paul on November 28th as part of their 7th Annual Holiday Boat Parade and Toy Drive along the Historic Mystic River. It was a busy day filled with holiday cheer and even though Santa was exhausted at day’s end, he felt fulfilled listening to the children’s Christmas wishes.
The boat parade is enjoyed by ALL and it wasn’t a easy task for the judges to pick four winners out of the 25 parading.
Most Charismatic Crew went to the Downeast Hunter who sported a Beach Boys theme, complete with a surfing Santa. Best Dressed went to the Red, White and Blueberry and Most Innovative went to the Jack Rabbit, which turned Love Boat for the night. The highly prized Miss Mystic–Vessel of Grandeur went to Work Vessels for Vet.
You, too, can catch the Spirit of Giving by participating in the TVCCA’s Retired and Senior Volunteer Program’s 14th annual Santa Anonymous Winter Boot Program.
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(l-r) Shelley Bernier, Liberty Bank Manager, R.B. Kent, President Elect of Groton Ledyard Rotary and Past President of the Groton Lion's Club, John Silsby, President Groton Ledyard Rotary and Marge Fondulas Director of Groton Social Services.
At their Thanksgiving luncheon on Tuesday, November 24, 2009 the Groton Lion’s Club and the Groton Ledyard Rotary presented a check for $5,708.08 to Groton Social Services.
The groups; which both volunteer in the community, teamed up to raise money that will go to helping needy Groton families during the holiday season. The Groton Lion’s Club raised $3,000.00 while The Rotary Club raised $1,281.60 and Liberty Bank gave $1,427.20 through their matching grants program.
Shelley Bernier the Manager of Liberty Bank in New London says, “Liberty Bank has matched the donations of Rotary and The Lion’s Club.”
Marge Fondulas, the Director of Groton Social Services said, “The check will be used to supplement our food locker and donation trust fund [which goes immediately to families in need].” Groton Social Services helps around 150 families per month on an ongoing basis, so all donations are appreciated. Many of the people who need help with basic needs such as getting food include seniors, the disabled and single parents.
While working as Director of Social Services, Marge has seen many members of the community come in and donate, which has always impressed her. She said, “We are fortunate that we have a generous community.”
The Navy was the guest of honor at the luncheon. The check was presented to Groton Social Services by R. B. Kent, Marge Fondulas, Shelley Bernier and two of the sailors who were invited to the luncheon. During the luncheon, the sailors introduced themselves and shared a little about their lives and interests in and out of the Navy. Some were from this area and said that they were glad to be living close to their families again.
R.B. Kent, a member of the Lion’s Club, has been in business in this area [Groton] for 36 years says, “I don’t have the money to be a philanthropist, but through the Club, I can help.” Raising this money took the efforts of many and will help some needy families have a brighter holiday season.
